If you've been invited to a wedding, congratulations! Weddings are such a beautiful and fun occasion, but it's important to keep in mind that the couple has put a lot of time and effort into planning their special day. To ensure that you don't unintentionally cause any problems, we've put together a list of 5 things to never do as a wedding guest.
1. Don't be Late
Arriving late to a wedding is not only disrespectful to the couple, but it can also be embarrassing for you. If you're running behind schedule, it's better to skip the ceremony and arrive for the reception. Walking in during the ceremony processional can be distracting and take away from the special moment the couple is experiencing. If you must arrive late, try to enter as discreetly as possible and take a seat in the back.
2. Don't Give a Speech Unless Asked To
While you may feel emotional and compelled to share your thoughts and feelings with the couple, it's important to remember that wedding coordinators usually have a set schedule. Unless you've been specifically asked to give a speech, it's best to keep your thoughts to yourself. If you really want to share your sentiments, wait until the reception and approach the couple during a quiet moment.
3. Don't Complain
Wedding planning can be stressful, and the couple has likely already dealt with their fair share of challenges. If you have any complaints or concerns, it's important to direct them to the wedding planner or coordinator. Don't approach the bride or groom directly, as they have enough on their plate already. If you have an emergency, look for a coordinator who will be able to help you with your needs.
4. No Show or Show Up without RSVP
The couple has likely put a lot of work into making a seating chart and ensuring that there are enough meals for all of their guests. If you don't RSVP on time or show up uninvited, it can put unnecessary stress on the couple and their caterers. Make sure to RSVP on time and let the couple know if your plans change.
5. Don't Bring Uninvited Guests
For similar reasons bringing uninvited guests can also be problematic, so make sure to only bring those who are explicitly invited.
Weddings are a special time for couples to celebrate their love and commitment to each other. As a guest, it's important to be respectful of their wishes and behave appropriately. By following these 5 simple rules, you can ensure that you don't unintentionally cause any problems on their special day.